The small things (are bullshit)

Just a small one this time.

I’m sick of the amount of emphasis put on the tiny ass things in game. Little one liners that worked here or there, which way your fauxhawk is pointing or even having a bad night are all completely meaningless. I think people lose focus of the long run of actual self transformation.

Just by Not Being Weird, having girls in your life, doing some appraoching and knowing how to escalate, guys WILL get laid. It’s simple. And you can do it wihtout being a creepy weird pickup guy. As for Not Being Weird, I am still trying to put into words so that weird cunts can stop doing whatever it is they are doing that makes everyone around think they are retarded. All of those things are pretty easy to accomplish given that you aren’t a half wit.

Not being weird – if people scrunch their face up when you do or say something…. stop doing that. It also helps if you have a buddy who can point out stupid shit that you do, so arrange a complete honesty system between you and your wing. That’s one of the greatest things I ever did. (Also, read http://www.esquire.com/features/honesty0707)

Having girls in your life – play in mixed sports, clubs, work, whatever, and get to know people. Those people have friends. Those friends also have friends. Getting introduced is a hell of a lot easier then constantly approaching.

Approach – Ballsing up and saying Hi. Yes, sometimes it is that simple. “Hi I thought you looked cool and wanted to say hi”

Knowing how to escalate – Touch her, but don’t grab her box in the first 5 minutes (unless she’s obviously going to be into it). Once again, just manning up. She rejected your kiss? Meh, keep talking and try again later. Dancing. Grabbing her hand and leading through the club. Learn by fucking it up.

And that’s me done. The small shit doesn’t matter. Just be cool.

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